Communication during play is key. Don´t assume your domme magically knows what is right for you.

1. Ask to talk about your desires and taboos before the session starts. Establish clear boundaries before you get into the play. Make sure you inform your domme about any special health conditions you have or medication you take. Safety first.

2. Tell your Mistress when you like something during the scene. In this way she can use it to reward and tease you.

3. If you wish for more intensity or humiliation, try to ask for it in a subtle way. Don´t say „More“ or „Harder“, as this may displease your Goddess. You might formulate it more subtly & while humiliating yourself: „Even though your pathetic loser does not deserve anymore, nothing would make me happier than another slap in the face“. „If you ever wish to reward me, you may fuck me even harder my divine Mistress“

   Anyway it is always better to be very specific about the level of intensity you desire before the scene, because you asking for more during the scene might disrupt the dynamic of dominance and submission.

4. Don´t shy away from using the stopword when you feel overwhelmed or disconnected in an unpleasant way.

5. Chat about the BDSM scene afterwards. Tell your Goddess which aspects you liked & disliked, so she can get to know your unique fetish desires. Now you may also ask your Mistress if there is anything she liked about your service and what you could improve to be a better slave for her.

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