Why I will dominate you anally

What is it like to be completely at my mercy, lying vulnerable and exposed before me? Find out for yourself.

Anal sex has an appeal that is difficult to put into words. Is it the animalistic urge? Is it the taboo of conquering this tight, forbidden orifice? Or is it the physical pleasures that penetration of the anus triggers? In my dominatrix practice, there is another aspect: Submission. I will explain to you what anal intercourse with me can look like, what to expect, and how to prepare for it. 

Anal sex with me

To get this out of the way right away: we are not talking about you having anal sex with me. No. I will have anal sex with you.

Not sure why that's a difference? Then let me put it more clearly: my strap-on dildo and I will dominate you. You will lie before us, vulnerable and at our mercy, taking everything we give you. Anal intercourse with a dominatrix means that you play the passive role.

Yes, it is painful. For many men, it is also somewhat humiliating. But above all, it is vulnerability: a state that men rarely find themselves in (or are allowed to be in). How often are you allowed to let go in bed as a man? And how often are you allowed to do so in your everyday life? There will be no pressure to perform—there can't be, when I lock your cock in a cage as well. You don't need it right now anyway. 

But just because your useless penis will bounce to the rhythm of my thrusts doesn't mean you won't have an orgasm. Do you know what an anal orgasm is? With the right stimulation, your prostate can be milked to the last drop. The feeling is completely different from ejaculation. Deeper, more expansive, it goes through your whole body and comes over you in waves. Whether I allow you to have this experience, we'll see. 

Why (and how) I love pegging

Pegging (strap-on sex where the man is the passive recipient) is the reversal of traditional gender roles. After a session, you're guaranteed to never skip foreplay again in private. I see my work in this area as a service to women everywhere. 

And: I love the image of a dominatrix with a strap-on dildo. 

Of course, I prefer to wear the biggest cock possible. You do too, don't you? My favorite size starts at 4 cm x 20 cm. That's what I feel most comfortable with. It will probably be different for you. The fear in your eyes arouses pure anticipation in me as a sadist. But there are also very practical reasons: a large dildo doesn't slip out of you so easily. 

I am just as attracted to power as I am to the vulnerability of men. That they get to feel what it's like to be in this position. To be sexually used for my pleasure. To feel how I stretch and fill you, how my strap-on pushes into you centimert by centimeter. That is pure dominance. 

How a good sub prepares for the session

I expect you to arrive clean for the appointment. 

For a planned anal session, this includes a few additional steps in addition to the obvious personal hygiene. First and foremost is an anal dounche, which empties and cleanses your intestinal tract and prepares it for penetration. 

There are several ways you can clean yourself anally. A shower attachment serves its purpose, although I personally prefer the handy, manual anal douche. Warm water and several rinses ensure that I don't have to find any leftovers from your dinner during the session. 

If you are unable to do so, we will have to repeat the rinsing during your session at the dominatrix studio. 

To help you prepare for our anal session:

1. I usually use lubricant and stretch you first with a few gloved fingers. I sometimes wear acrylic nails, which can be intimidating for total beginners. But I can handle them with sensitivity—you don't need to be scared. You might be more scared of what comes next, though.

2. My favorite position is missionary. I want to look into your eyes when I take you. Thanks to my bodybuilding, I am flexible and strong enough to challenge you physically in many ways. My stamina is also impressive. You're not getting tired already, are you?

3. Yes, it will hurt. We will discuss your personal limits beforehand and agree on a safe word that you can use to stop the session at any time. Despite all the preparation, stretching during anal sex can be painful. However, the pain rarely lasts long and, with a little relaxation, quickly turns into pure ecstasy. 

The next level: deep anal play and fisting

Anal play has several levels of intensity. Pegging with a strap-on dildo is by no means the most intense practice I can do with you. Even a 20 cm dildo does not penetrate you particularly deeply (comparatively speaking). 

When it comes to anal sex, girth is more important anyway. After all, the intestine is several meters long. There is virtually no size limit on the length of my toy. Different shapes, nubs, or squirting functions make my strap-on dildo an all-purpose toy. And why does it always have to be silicone? My fist will definitely fit in your ass. Maybe even both. 

We also have a few options besides penetration. Enemas are not only for cleanliness, but with the right mixture of ingredients, they can also be used as punishment. With the speculum, I can inspect your hole closely. E-stim, pain play, multiple rounds: the list goes on and on.

More extreme anal games naturally involve more risk. You shouldn't expect me to fist you three times and stretch your rectum to the size of a soccer ball on our first date. I need to be sure that you know your limits and can communicate them. 

Why I love to see you weak

Your ass belongs to me. 

Read that again. 

You belong to me. 

When I'm having fun with you, your comfort becomes irrelevant. Your hole is there for me to use. So I can revel in your pain and see how vulnerable you are. 

Pegging brings you into a role reversal. You will experience what it's like to feel sexually used. My thrusts will be your metronome as you lie helplessly beneath me. 

And I'm just going to enjoy it when my cock penetrates you.